(Dedicated to Roxanne Pickett) There’s an undeniable power between what we put on our bodies and the way we feel. Some feel undefeatable in a custom made Armani suit while others feel untouchable in a one-off bomber jacket by Louis Vuitton x Supreme. Everyone has a preference, but today’s post is about how to utilize your favourite pieces to exude positivity while repelling that bad juju.
As I mentioned above everyone’s style choices differ but what generally works for me is statement jackets. As a man living in the Middle East, your style choices are limited, even ripped jeans can be quite problematic (if you’re on the wrong side of town) but regardless of people’s opinions you can always push fashion boundaries with jackets because they are typically cut in traditional styles.
For example; I recently purchased a faux leather motorcycle jacket in a holographic finish from Forever21’s women’s section, but due to the cut of the jacket which includes no pointed bust seams or other overly feminine details, it could very well be a men’s motorcycle jacket. How does it help me stay positive? I haven’t officially worn it yet but its reflective finish makes it a statement piece; an unconventional look that sets you apart from the crowd. Through my experience I’ve learnt that you are always at your happiest when you dress for you, never blend in when you were born to stand out. You get the gist, so let’s move on to jacket style number deux, the satin bomber.
Bomber jackets have become a must-have in every man’s wardrobe and if you’ve purchased one, the likelihood of you purchasing many a variation of the style is inevitable. They complement everything and all occasions. Look for luxurious textiles such as durable satin, embroidered silk and jewel tones such as emerald, turquoise or ruby. These easy-to-wear jackets can also be paired with a formal shirt, tailored trousers and brogues for job interviews. Especially if you want to tell your potential employer that you are anything but a basic candidate. The cut of bombers, which appear with heavier padding in winter versions and light-lining for summer is also complementary on all body types, which automatically embeds a sense of confidence to your psyche. No, the jacket doesn’t look tight, it just looks damn good on you! Purchase one in a regal colour tone from HM, ZARA or Gucci and you’ll be set for the season.
The Key to Positive Clothing? my final piece of advice I can give you when it comes to bringing positivity your way is to always embrace your unique sense of style. Some might think it’s crazy and others might think your pioneering a movement but the bottom line is what you put on your body should always be the best exemplification of YOU. The men’s sections in most stores often bore me, I’m not looking to dress like an extra from Farmville, and I’m glad for it! My dying breath will never be used to say I haven’t explored my limits because much like with my style, I will try everything once.
Life is about exploring every possibility, loving blindly, taking risks, climbing mountains, it’s an adventure and you are at your most positive when you know that you are living every day to the fullest. Yes, there will be negativity, no matter what you wear or how much you earn, life is a medley of emotions and vibes, both positive and negative, but it is precisely this unpredictable nature that keeps urging us forward, reaching for better things.
And if I had to pick a jacket style for number tres, on this post it would have to be a faux fur. Nothing says, ‘I’m here-I’m fabulous- bow down’ like a fabulously oversized faux-fur jacket, and yes- the bigger the better!